(1 Peter 4:12) “Dear
friends, do not be surprised at the fiery ordeal that has come on you to test
you, as though something strange were happening to you.”
Why is this happening to me?
Why are they treating me this way?
Hidden behind those questions is the underlying assumption “I don’t
deserve it!” Here is the deal … bad
things will happen to “good” people … even to someone as good as you are. Did you deserve what happened to you? Perhaps
or perhaps not. Whichever the case the
issue is how we respond the what happened.
For most of us our response is to hunker down in our foxhole and fire
back with “righteous indignation” and perhaps sorrow if the offender holds a
close place in our heart.
(Matthew 5:38-48)
“You have heard that it was said, ‘Eye for eye, and tooth for tooth.’ But I
tell you, do not resist an evil person.
If anyone slaps you on the right cheek, turn to them the other cheek also. And
if anyone wants to sue you and take your shirt, hand over your coat as well. If
anyone forces you to go one mile, go with them two miles. Give to the one who
asks you, and do not turn away from the one who wants to borrow from you. “You have heard that it was said, ‘Love
your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray
for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven.
He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the
righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will
you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your own people, what
are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? Be perfect,
therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.”
Be perfect as your Father in heaven is perfect. Wow!
How hard is that? It’s not
humanly possible. You will never respond
the way Jesus told you to if you try to do it on your own. The response to others in 1 Peter and Matthew
5 are not derived from the human will but by faith in Jesus and the power of
the Spirit in you. Stop trying to live
the Christian life in obedience to the Word of God through human determination
.. it just does not work. Charley