There is a way that seems right to a man, But its end is the way of death. - Proverbs 14:12
I am quite certain that you have someone, perhaps more than one someone, in your family who is struggling with sin. And very likely, you struggle with how you should respond to that someone. Well, I think that to find the answer you seek, you might have a look back at your own life. Was there a time when you and your heart were far from God? Of course there was. Did you want people telling you that you were wrong and needed to go another away? Of course you didn't!
So what changed in your life? Did someone continue to love you? That is not to say they condoned the choices you were making. But they, still, did not "throw the baby out with the bath water!"
Do you remember the parable of the prodigal son in Luke 15? When the son repented and returned to his father, his father saw him from a long way off. That suggests to me that the father was always looking toward the hill for the son's return. But he did not go after his son. He loved him and waited for the son to have a change of heart. True spiritual transformation is not something that you can mandate or manipulate. Oh you might be able to influence someone's behavior when you are around them, but not change their heart. That is something that they must do. It is between them and God.
For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him. Whoever believes in him is not condemned, but whoever does not believe is condemned already, because he has not believed in the name of the only Son of God. - John 3:16-18
God has made a way for restoration but it takes each one of us yielding our hearts - repenting of our sin - and being restored to our heavenly Father through faith in Jesus. The life that we were living that led to death and eternal separation from God was saved because Jesus paid the price for our sins. I know some of my relatives are living their lives apart from God. They know the truth about God's love and yet they continue to live in a way that defies the Truth but makes sense to them. I have shared the Gospel on more than one occasion. It is not that they have not heard the Truth. It is that they choose not to repent. There is nothing I can do about that. I can't make the decision for them. But I will continue to love them, looking down the road, hoping that one day I will see them crest the hill as they return with a new heart.
My folks witnessed to me for 7 years - sometimes with words - but mainly with love and acceptance - living as examples of children of the King. They didn't love my choices, but they still loved me! I heard their testimonies but there was another way that seemed right to me at the time, until one day - my eyes and heart were opened to the Truth - and my life was changed - forever. I was born again. If it can happen to me - it can happen to anyone. But it takes a divine - personal - revelation from the Father - Jehovah God.
Simon Peter answered and said, “You are the Christ, the Son of the living God.” Jesus answered and said to him, “Blessed are you, Simon Bar-Jonah, for flesh and blood has not revealed this to you, but My Father who is in heaven. - Matthew 16:16-17
Think about it – Pray about it - Believe it – Walk in it. Let your light shine and give God the glory.
By Faith Alone By His Grace Alone And For His Glory Alone

