Friday, February 23, 2018

How To Respond To An Attitude Of Ingratitude



The Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve… —Matthew 20:28

{CHAMBERS} “Jesus also said, “Yet I am among you as the One who serves” (Luke 22:27). Paul’s idea of service was the same as our Lord’s— “…ourselves your bondservants for Jesus’ sake” (2 Corinthians 4:5). […] Paul’s idea of service was to pour his life out to the last drop for others. And whether he received praise or blame made no difference. As long as there was one human being who did not know Jesus, Paul felt a debt of service to that person until he did come to know Him. But the chief motivation behind Paul’s service was not love for others but love for his Lord. If our devotion is to the cause of humanity, we will be quickly defeated and broken-hearted, since we will often be confronted with a great deal of ingratitude from other people. But if we are motivated by our love for God, no amount of ingratitude will be able to hinder us from serving one another. […] Once we realize that Jesus has served us even to the depths of our meagerness, our selfishness, and our sin, nothing we encounter from others will be able to exhaust our determination to serve others for His sake.”



{ELGIN}  Are you familiar with the term “ingrate”?  You don’t hear it much anymore.  It describes a person who is ungrateful.  Perhaps you have met someone like that.  Perhaps you have been someone like that.  To my chagrin, I have been known to say “there is nothing that bothers me more than ingratitude!”  That is right before I recognize the pride that is welling up in my heart.  The Spirit reminds me of what it means to offer my life as a sacrifice.  By serving others, I am serving the Lord. (Matthew 25).  Jesus asked the one leper who came back to thank him for his healing, “Where are the other 9?” (Luke 17:11-19)  If we were to use that as a principle, we might say that we can expect only 10% of the people we serve to appreciate what was done.  Why is that?  It might be because people are so focused on their personal plight and survival that all they want is relief and once they have it, they move on, glad they escaped and not caring where the relief came from. 

But what about my sacrifice you might ask.  Don’t they know what I had to give up to help them?  Don’t they care what a great act of kindness I just performed?  Going back to Jesus and the lepers, it could be that they don’t care.  My point?  What we do for others should be motivated by our love and devotion to the Lord.  Not by our desire to be praised by men and held in high esteem by them.  It is for that reason that I shun praise from others for what we do on the mission field.  Listen … God has given each of us a purpose, the gifts to fulfill that purpose, and the power to accomplish it.  It’s all Him! If anything bothers us it should be that people don’t acknowledge God in their “healing” from whatever their dilemma might be.  Don’t let ingratitude be the reason you don’t do something or regret doing something.  What you do in service should be motivated by the Spirit and not your need for affirmation from or appreciation by men.  Jesus cautioned the disciples about this … right before He taught them to pray.

(Matthew 6:1-6)  “Be careful not to practice your righteousness in front of others to be seen by them. If you do, you will have no reward from your Father in heaven. “So when you give to the needy, do not announce it with trumpets, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and on the streets, to be honored by others. Truly I tell you, they have received their reward in full. But when you give to the needy, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, so that your giving may be in secret. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you. “And when you pray, do not be like the hypocrites, for they love to pray standing in the synagogues and on the street corners to be seen by others. Truly I tell you, they have received their reward in full. But when you pray, go into your room, close the door and pray to your Father, who is unseen.” 

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