Jesus did not commit Himself to them…for He knew what was in
man. —John 2:24-25
{CHAMBERS} “Put Trust in God First. Our Lord never put
His trust in any person. Yet He was never suspicious, never bitter, and never
lost hope for anyone, because He put His trust in God first. He trusted
absolutely in what God’s grace could do for others. If I put my trust in human
beings first, the end result will be my despair and hopelessness toward
everyone. I will become bitter because I have insisted that people be what no
person can ever be— absolutely perfect and right. Never trust anything in
yourself or in anyone else, except the grace of God. Put God’s Will First.
“Behold, I have come to do Your will, O God” (Hebrews 10:9). […] Am I allowing
my natural life to be slowly transformed by the indwelling life of the Son of
God? God’s ultimate purpose is that His Son might be exhibited in me.”
{ELGIN} The difference between your desire for
someone to be a certain way or want a certain thing and their desire for the
same thing is called frustration. Spiritual
change happens from the inside out. It
starts in the heart. Prisons are full of
people that have their wrong behavior constrained by locked doors and prison
bars. But let many of them free from
those constraints and they will go right back to the life they had been living
before they went to prison. God changes
hearts. A study in 2005 showed that 75%
of prisoners released were re-arrested within 5 years. Jesus said, “It is not the outside of the cup
that makes it unclean.” (Matthew 23:25) Just as sure as you can’t save any one, you
can’t change anyone’s heart. (Jeremiah 17:9-10) “The heart is
deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it? I the LORD
search the heart and test the mind, to give every man according to his ways,
according to the fruit of his deeds.”
Only God knows and only God can change the heart but it requires faith
on our part. The change in a person that
you so desperately want to see can only come through their faith transaction with
God. So what do you do in the
meantime? Love them like Jesus loves
them, but remember, He never condoned the sin.
He confronted it and encouraged the people to repent.