Tuesday, June 30, 2015

How You Respond To Others Is A Choice




“ […] God’s laws are unchangeable and there is no escape from them. The teachings of Jesus always penetrate right to the heart of our being. […] God is determined to have His child as pure, clean, and white as driven snow, and as long as there is disobedience in any point of His teaching, He will allow His Spirit to use whatever process it may take to bring us to obedience. The fact that we insist on proving that we are right is almost always a clear indication that we have some point of disobedience. No wonder the Spirit of God so strongly urges us to stay steadfastly in the light! (see John 3:19-21). […] “Agree with your adversary quickly….” Have you suddenly reached a certain place in your relationship with someone, only to find that you have anger in your heart? Confess it quickly— make it right before God. Be reconciled to that person— do it now!” CHAMBERS

Oh, not that! I know some pretty disagreeable people.  People that are really unkind.  People who seem to have made it their life’s goal to make me unhappy. Are you telling me that I must be reconciled to that person? No.  God has said it.  The Bible is not a menu that you can make choices from.  “Now let’s see, I think I will have the blessing from God, and I get two sides?  Ok, I would like the peace that passes understanding and joy down in my heart. And to drink .. living water . no ice.”

God uses His Word to show us how He wants us to live and His Spirit to convict us of sin.  And what we are told to do, we need His power to do it.  So when you hear or read  be reconciled to “that” person, do you immediately look within and say, “I can’t!” or maybe even “I won’t”.  You have chosen to respond to them in your flesh.  You are not reflecting Jesus.  You might be thinking, “but you have no idea what this person has done.”  Doesn’t matter.  The question is, how have you chosen to respond to it.  So you say “But this person is evil .. they are not even a Christian.”  It doesn’t matter .. the point is how are you responding to this person.  Think about these verses in the context of your relationship with that person.

Romans 12:18 “If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.”  That means that you should not be the reason for the discord in the relationship.  It does not mean that they will change .. it might, but that is not the condition for what you do.  

Matthew 5:43-45 “You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven.”  This is the love that comes from God, through you. 

Matthew 5: 39-40  But I tell you, do not resist an evil person. If anyone slaps you on the right cheek, turn to them the other cheek also. And if anyone wants to sue you and take your shirt, hand over your coat as well.”  This is crazy isn’t it?  You mean I am just supposed to take it?  Yowzer! That is tough to do!

Matthew 5: 21-22 “You have heard that it was said to the people long ago, ‘You shall not murder, and anyone who murders will be subject to judgment.’ But I tell you that anyone who is angry with a brother or sister will be subject to judgment.” I can’t even be angry with them for it?  Read on.

1 John 3:15 “Anyone who hates a brother or sister is a murderer  We cannot justify our feeling of hate toward others .. no matter how much or how many times they have wronged us. 

1 John 4:20Whoever claims to love God yet hates a brother or sister is a liar.” God’s motivation for saving us was “love”  and we are to show that same love toward others … and you can’t do it on your own.  Think about it.  ELGIN

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